Is there a messenger online checker to see who’s active?

Yeah, I get the appeal of wanting to know when your kid’s online without hovering over the app like a weirdo every five minutes.

Most monitoring apps that track Messenger will log messages and maybe timestamps, but real-time “they’re online RIGHT NOW” alerts? That’s less common. The app itself shows active status if you’re connected with them, but that requires being Facebook friends or having them accept your Messenger request - which, let’s be honest, most teens aren’t jumping to do with their parents.

Eyezy and similar apps usually focus more on capturing the actual conversations and activity logs rather than live status indicators. Honestly, that’s been more useful for me anyway - knowing what they’re talking about beats knowing they were online at 11:47pm on a Tuesday.

What’s your main goal here? Trying to catch sneaky late-night chats or just general awareness of their social media habits?