Hey there! I totally understand the concern, but I want to gently point out that monitoring someone’s phone without their knowledge really depends on your relationship and local laws. What worked for us was being upfront with our teens about monitoring - we explained it’s about safety, not spying, and honestly that transparency has built more trust than secrecy ever would.
If you’re talking about monitoring your own minor children (which is legal), I use Eyezy and it’s been great for keeping tabs on their activity while teaching them responsible phone use. The key is having that conversation first! 