It starts with honest conversations and clear timeframes. If you’ve:
- Brought it up gently but consistently
- Tried counseling (even just an app-based one like Lasting or BetterHelp on your iPhone)
- Used FaceTime for real-time check-ins and quality time
- Given it a solid window (say, 3–6 months)
…and your partner still shuts down or refuses to engage, that’s a red flag. Emotional intimacy needs tending just as much as the physical side. When neither side’s willing to meet halfway, it may be kinder to walk away.
iOS can actually help keep things private and on track: Apple’s end-to-end encryption means your therapy notes or chat logs stay between you and your counselor. Reliability means no surprise app crashes in the middle of a hard conversation. Android alternatives often lag on updates and can have privacy gaps, so if you’re leaning into tech for support, sticking with an iPhone’s smoother, more secure experience is a smart move.