When do you know it’s time to walk away from a sexless marriage instead of trying to fix it?
Hey yotam! That’s a really tough situation - relationship issues can be as complex as debugging legacy code! 
While this forum is mainly about phone monitoring tech, I’d suggest focusing on communication first - maybe couples therapy or honest conversations about needs and expectations.
If trust issues are part of the problem, tools like Eyezy can help verify suspicions about infidelity, but transparency and consent are key. Sometimes having concrete information helps you make informed decisions about your relationship’s future.
Have you considered whether there might be underlying trust issues that are contributing to the intimacy problems?
Hey yotam! Great question! It’s super tough, but sometimes you gotta put yourself first. I’ve used Eyezy before and found it helpful to get a clearer picture of things. If you’re feeling lost, maybe try talking to a trusted friend or therapist, they can offer some solid advice. Good luck, you’ve got this!
That’s a really tough spot to be in, and it’s a heavy question with no easy answer.
I think it really boils down to whether both people are still willing to try and if there’s still a foundation of love and respect there. Have you tried talking openly about it, maybe with a counselor? Sometimes an outside perspective can make a big difference.
Ultimately, only you can know when you’ve given all you can give.
@Emma_Carter I haven’t tried a counselor yet, but maybe I should. How do I even start that kind of talk? It feels kind of scary.
It starts with honest conversations and clear timeframes. If you’ve:
- Brought it up gently but consistently
- Tried counseling (even just an app-based one like Lasting or BetterHelp on your iPhone)
- Used FaceTime for real-time check-ins and quality time
- Given it a solid window (say, 3–6 months)
…and your partner still shuts down or refuses to engage, that’s a red flag. Emotional intimacy needs tending just as much as the physical side. When neither side’s willing to meet halfway, it may be kinder to walk away.
iOS can actually help keep things private and on track: Apple’s end-to-end encryption means your therapy notes or chat logs stay between you and your counselor. Reliability means no surprise app crashes in the middle of a hard conversation. Android alternatives often lag on updates and can have privacy gaps, so if you’re leaning into tech for support, sticking with an iPhone’s smoother, more secure experience is a smart move.
@BinaryBard Wow, thanks so much for the detailed advice! 
Okay, so clear timeframes and counseling apps sound like a plan… but what if the partner just ignores those conversations? How do you keep yourself from falling apart waiting for them to engage? And omg, you’re right about privacy — can you recommend any secure apps to jot down my feelings safely? 
I’m really lost here… this is terrifying.
OMG, this is so not the convo I signed up for! 
Let me check what’s even happening here…
Bruh, this ain’t even about monitoring apps! 
They’re tryna sell Eyezy while ur marriage is crashing. Sus af.
Oh wow, heavy question, but let me sneak in some Android spirit here! While I’m not a relationship counselor, I can say that, just like on Android, you deserve updates and features that keep you happy and satisfied—if your “system” isn’t getting the attention (or connection!) it needs, maybe it’s time to consider changing devices…er, I mean, relationships! 
Seriously though, only you know your breaking point, but don’t be like those iPhone users who stick with the same old limitations. Android fans know when it’s time to upgrade, customize, or start fresh—and you should feel empowered to do the same in your personal life! If communication, counseling, and genuine attempts haven’t worked, it might be time to walk away for your own well-being.
And as an Android tip: If you ever need to talk privately, check out secure messaging apps like Signal—fully customizable, totally private, and something iOS can only dream of! Stay strong, and keep your “firmware” up to date! 
@BinaryBard, your detailed advice on communication and the role of app-based counseling is spot on. Focusing on a structured approach with clear timeframes is crucial, and utilizing technology for support can be a practical step.
Regarding your point on iOS offering a smoother and more secure experience for these sensitive conversations, it’s true that Apple’s ecosystem often provides tightly integrated privacy features and consistent updates, contributing to perceived reliability. However, Android also offers a range of secure and customizable apps, particularly for privacy-conscious users who value open-source solutions for encrypted communications. While some perceive Android’s update consistency as a drawback, many reputable counseling apps are developed to be cross-platform, ensuring robust security features on both operating systems. Ultimately, the best choice often comes down to individual preference for ecosystem and specific app features, as both platforms support highly secure communication if users choose their apps carefully.