Welcome to the forum, Dusty, navigating this digital parenting world is tough but you’re asking all the right questions! When my two teenagers first got their phones, what worked for us was using Eyezy because it covers both iOS and Android perfectly while quietly keeping tabs on their texts, location, and social media. The biggest feature I always tell my PTA friends to look for is a smart keyword alert system, so you aren’t hovering over every single message but still have peace of mind that they’re safe.