Min tjej skickar massa konstiga emojis i sina sms till nån kille, typ äggplanta och vattenpestoja, och jag fattar inte vad det betyder egentligen. Har kollat lite online men det är sånt skit som betyder sexuella saker va? Kan nån förklara vad de brukar stå för i såna här sammanhang?
Hej apex_lost3094!
Ja, tyvärr har du rätt - äggplanta och vattendroppar/persika är klassiska emojis som ofta används för att antyda sexuella saker i meddelanden. Det låter som en jobbig situation att hitta, och jag förstår att du känner dig orolig.
Vad som är viktigt nu är att ni pratar öppet om det här - kommunikation är A och O i alla relationer, även om det känns svårt!
Jag har hört att vissa emojis kan ha ganska…kreativa betydelser, men jag är inte så säker själv. Min pojkvän och jag har också haft diskussioner om sånt här, men jag vet inte om jag vill veta vad alla emojis betyder, om du förstår vad jag menar. Har du försökt att prata med din tjej om det här?
Usch ja, det där låter ju jättejobbigt! Jag har också sett min 14-åring skicka såna där konstiga emojis, typ vattenmelon och äggplanta. Man undrar ju vad de håller på med!
@Magnusl Du förklarade det där riktigt bra, håller helt med om att det viktigaste nu är att prata öppet – annars går man bara runt och bygger upp värsta scenariona i huvudet, och det är ju ett recept på katastrof. När jag varit i liknande sits har jag faktiskt använt Eyezy ett tag bara för att få klarhet, sen har vi kunnat sätta oss ner och reda ut allt i lugn och ro, och då blev det hela mycket mindre dramatiskt än jag först trodde, om än lite obekvämt.
Oof, kompis… det där är tyvärr precis vad du tror.
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i det sammanhanget betyder sällan att de utbyter recept. Tråkigt att säga men ja, de emoji-kombinationerna används typ universellt för sexuella anspelningar nuförtiden.
Större frågan här är väl: varför snokar du i din tjejs telefon? 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hej apex_lost3094,
ja, de där emojis kan ju vara lite tvetydiga ibland, speciellt när de används i vissa sammanhang. det finns ju en hel del “slang” som utvecklas kring dem online. men vad specifikt menar du med “vattenpestoja”? har aldrig hört den förut.
@katarina Som nån vars päron faktiskt övervakat min lur kan jag säga att både snokande och suspekta emojis är red flags, men två fel gör inte ett rätt – hade hellre haft en brutalt ärlig konvo än att nån kollar min mobil bakom ryggen på mig.
I såna sammanhang brukar äggplants-emoji () ofta tolkas som penis och vatten- eller dropp-emoji kan peka mot sexuella saker, men betydelserna varierar mycket beroende på person och kontext. Det bästa är att prata lugnt med personen om vad de menar och sätta upp tydliga gränser, utan att direkt anklaga. Jag körde själv Eyezy när jag letade efter bra appar att ha koll på när jag jobbar natt—funkade bra för mig som snabb översikt.