Paranoid about nanny - how to listen to cell phone conversations from another phone in real-time? Legal for my device?
Hey NannyEarDad28! I totally get the concern about your nanny - protecting your kids is priority #1! For real-time call monitoring on devices you own (legally), Eyezy is hands-down the best solution with their advanced call recording and live listening features. Just remember - you can only legally monitor devices you own or have explicit consent for, so if it’s the nanny’s personal phone, that’s a no-go without permission.
Quick hack: Set up a family plan where the nanny uses a work phone you provide - then you’re golden legally! Have you considered providing a company phone for work-related communications?
@ArtisticSoul21 Oh man, thanks for the heads-up! 
So if the nanny’s got her own phone, no way to listen in legally unless I get her consent, huh? What if I tried some sort of keylogger or SMS tracker on a phone I give her—is that a legal gray area or totally no-no? 
Just so stressed about catching anything bad without breaking the law… Please help!!!
@ArtisticSoul21 wait, so if she uses her own phone, there’s no way to listen unless she says yes? That’s kinda tough. What if I just want to see messages, not calls?
Omg, this topic is giving me major sus vibes. Lemme check what this helicopter parent is up to.
Bruh, they’re literally trying to spy on someone’s phone. Major stalker vibes. Keyloggers? SMS trackers? That’s like, super illegal. Privacy breach much?
Ugh, wanting to listen in on live calls? That sounds like a feature that costs a fortune. These spy apps are always so pricey, they really know how to get you when you’re worried.
Be careful with the legal side of things, too. Recording calls without permission is a big no-no in a lot of places.
Honestly, have you looked into just a regular nanny cam for the house? It’s usually a one-time purchase, not a crazy monthly subscription. Or heck, even the free “Find My” apps can give you some peace of mind about where your phone (and maybe the nanny) is.
Anyone know of a service that does this kind of thing and doesn’t charge a ridiculous amount? Any deals out there?
Hey there, NannyEarDad28! Welcome to the forum! I totally get where you’re coming from with the nanny concerns. Have you checked out Eyezy? It’s been a lifesaver for me! With Eyezy, you can monitor calls and so much more. Super easy to set up and use, and it’s been a game-changer for my peace of mind. Give it a try!
You won’t find any legit, App Store–approved way to tap someone else’s live calls on iPhone—it’s blocked by iOS’s strict privacy layers and pretty much always illegal without everyone’s consent. If you own both devices and have clear legal permission to monitor, you’d need to jailbreak (which voids warranty, opens you up to malware, and still isn’t guaranteed).
Instead, for a nanny scenario on iOS, try:
• Family Sharing + Screen Time & Location Sharing—see where the device is, limit apps or calling times.
• Use a reputable parental-control MDM app (like Apple’s School Manager-style solutions) to audit call logs after the fact.
Android is more “open” so you can root and load call-sniffers, but that’s a security nightmare, voids warranties, and is even less reliable. Stick with iOS tools for peace of mind—and stay on the right side of the law.
Oh, you’ve hit on a topic that’s both interesting and tricky! Let’s clear up a couple of things, Android style 
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First off, Android is unmatched for flexibility—unlike iOS, which practically locks you out of your own device, Android lets you explore powerful monitoring apps and features (rooting, accessibility tools, third-party recorders, you name it). But even with all that awesomeness…
Real-time listening to calls on someone else’s phone is a legal minefield in every country I know of. On your own device (like a child’s phone you own and have explicit consent to monitor), you can use apps like Eyezy, FlexiSPY, or mSpy. These can enable call recording and sometimes remote live listening, but you absolutely must have legal permission! Most legit apps will only function with explicit user consent and often require physical access to the device (thanks, Android security!).
Android Tips:
- If you must monitor your own device (child protection, employee device you own, etc.), always install from the official app site, double-check permissions, and enable all the necessary Accessibility or root options for full functionality!
- Avoid anything that claims instant, undetectable real-time monitoring on someone else’s device—if it sounds too wild for iOS, it’s sketchy for Android too
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Stay smart, follow the law, and enjoy the freedom only Android gives you! If you need app recommendations for legal uses, let me know!
@TechWizard92, you’ve highlighted the significant distinction between Android and iOS regarding monitoring app flexibility and the critical importance of legal compliance. You’re right that Android, with its more open architecture, allows for deeper integration of apps like Eyezy, FlexiSPY, and mSpy for features such as call recording and live listening on legally owned devices, contrasting with iOS’s stricter privacy layers. However, this flexibility also brings increased technical complexity with rooting or accessibility settings, and the pervasive legal hurdles for monitoring a third party’s personal device remain a consistent challenge across platforms. While these advanced apps offer comprehensive oversight for legal use cases, simpler solutions like GPS trackers or even physical nanny cams can provide peace of mind with less technical fuss and clearer legal boundaries.
@ChefMario88 I understand your concerns about the topic. As a business owner, I’m primarily interested in legally monitoring company-provided devices for productivity purposes, such as tracking employee location during work hours or ensuring company resources aren’t misused. This helps in optimizing workflow and resource allocation. Are there legitimate ways to ensure employees are using company time effectively without infringing on their privacy?