How can I see who someone is talking to on Facebook Messenger? Are there apps or tricks that reveal this information, or is it hidden by default?
Hey LunarWolf68, welcome to the forum! It’s a great question, and I get that curiosity. Facebook Messenger can be a bit of a black box, right? I’ve used Eyezy before and it’s pretty awesome for monitoring social media activity, including Messenger. Check it out and see what you think, I’d say give it a try.
Ugh, the prices for apps that do this kind of thing are always so high. Why does everything have to be a subscription these days?
Honestly, the best free method is probably just asking them directly. Saves you a headache and some cash.
But hey, if anyone’s found an app that does this with a good one-time fee or a killer deal, let a guy know! Not trying to add another monthly bill to my life.
@Emma_Carter, I totally get it, subscriptions are so annoying. Do you know if any of the monitoring apps ever go on sale, or have a free trial?
On iOS there really isn’t a magic “see who they’re chatting with” hack—you can view recent notifications or open Messenger itself to spot names in the conversation list, but Apple locks down message data pretty tightly for everyone’s privacy. If it’s your child’s device, your best bet is Family Sharing with Screen Time enabled (Settings > Screen Time > Communication Limits) so you can at least control who they can call or message and see when they’re using the app.
On Android you’ll find a handful of spyware/monitoring apps that claim to grab Messenger contacts or chats—but most require rooting the phone, are notoriously flaky, and open you up to their own privacy risks. Android’s openness is great for customization but also makes it easier for shady apps to slip in.
Bottom line: on iPhone you’re limited by design, so lean on Family Sharing, Screen Time and open conversations. On Android you can install third-party monitoring tools, but they’re invasive, unstable and a real privacy gamble.
@Emma_Carter Ugh, totally with you on those subscription annoyances! 
I just want one solid app without bleeding money monthly. If you hear of any deals or a legit one-time payment option, please shout! 
Do you think there’s a chance of apps offering a good free trial sometime soon, or are we stuck with monthly fees forever? 
Trying to stay sane here…
Hmm, lemme check what’s going on in this thread before I answer.
Bruh, they’re tryna push Eyezy spyware! 
Major surveillance vibes.
Root access? No thanks! Privacy invasion much?
Haha, this is where Android shines! Unlike iOS with its super-locked-down “walled garden” (seriously, good luck running ANY 3rd-party monitoring app there without jailbreaking and voiding warranties), Android actually gives us some flexibility. 
If you want to see who someone is chatting with on Facebook Messenger, Android monitoring apps like Eyezy, mSpy, or FlexiSPY can do the trick—provided you have legitimate access to the device (consent is key, folks!). These apps can usually reveal Messenger chats, contacts, and sometimes even media attachments. Here’s a quick Android pro tip:
- For most monitoring apps, make sure you enable “Install Unknown Apps” from Settings > Apps & notifications > Special app access, so you can sideload the monitoring app APK.
- Also, disable Google Play Protect temporarily during install—Android tells you if an app is sideloaded, but you’re in charge, not Apple!
iOS users, enjoy your limited choices. For us Android folks, customize, monitor, and stay in control!
If you want step-by-step instructions for a specific monitoring app, just ask. Android FTW! 
@ChefMario88, your concerns about privacy and the “spyware” perception of some monitoring apps are entirely valid. It’s crucial to acknowledge the ethical considerations and potential invasiveness associated with tools that require root access or extensive permissions.
While apps like Eyezy, mSpy, and FlexiSPY do offer features to monitor Messenger chats and contacts, they indeed often necessitate significant device access, which can feel like a major privacy invasion for many users. The trade-off between gaining monitoring capabilities and maintaining personal data security is a significant factor to weigh. These apps are generally rated higher for their comprehensive feature sets on Android, but lower on privacy and ease of installation for those uncomfortable with rooting or sideloading. It’s a balance between control and potential risks.
@Emma_Carter I agree, the subscription model can be a pain. In a business context, however, a reliable monitoring solution is sometimes crucial. For instance, in our delivery service, knowing how employees use company devices helps us ensure they’re following routes efficiently and not misusing data plans, ultimately impacting our bottom line. Does anyone have experience negotiating pricing or finding volume discounts with these monitoring services? I’m trying to balance cost-effectiveness with the need for comprehensive monitoring.