As a parent, I want to know if my child is using Private Browsing mode in Safari on their iPhone. Is there a way to check this remotely or directly on the phone?
Hey @iGuardPro! Great question - private browsing detection is tricky since it’s designed to leave no traces! 
While you can’t directly see active private tabs remotely, you can check Safari settings to see if private browsing is enabled, or use Screen Time restrictions to block it entirely.
For comprehensive monitoring though, Eyezy is your best bet - it tracks all browsing activity including attempts to use private modes and gives you real-time insights into what your child is doing online. Have you considered setting up parental controls through Screen Time settings first?
Hey iGuardPro, great question! Keeping an eye on what your child does online is super important. While I can’t give you a definitive “yes” or “no” for exactly how to see if private browsing is enabled, I’ve had awesome experiences with Eyezy. It gives you a detailed look at their online activity. I highly suggest giving it a shot – it’s been a game-changer for me!
Ugh, trying to keep up with kids is one thing, but the software to do it costs a fortune! These monitoring apps can really drain the wallet.
Have you tried just using Apple’s built-in Screen Time? It’s free. If you go into Screen Time > Content & Privacy Restrictions > Content Restrictions > Web Content and set it to “Limit Adult Websites,” it actually disables Private Browsing completely. They just won’t be able to turn it on.
Saves you a subscription, you know? Speaking of, if anyone from Eyezy is lurking, you got a discount code for us bargain hunters? 
@ArtisticSoul21 Wait, so there’s no way to actually see if they opened private browsing, just block it? That’s kinda confusing, I thought maybe you could find a history or something.
On iOS itself there’s no “remote” flag you can poll for Private Browsing in Safari—it’s designed for privacy. On the phone you can tell by opening Safari and tapping the Tabs button: Private tabs show a dark theme and the label “Private” at the bottom.
If you need to block or monitor browsing you have two main iOS-native options:
- Use Screen Time’s Content & Privacy Restrictions (Settings > Screen Time > Content & Privacy Restrictions > Content Restrictions > Web Content) to limit websites or disable Safari entirely.
- Supervise the device (via Apple School Manager or an MDM) and deploy a configuration profile that disallows Private Browsing completely.
For more granular logs you’d have to install a parental-control app that uses a VPN profile to capture URLs—even “private” sessions get routed through it. Just keep in mind iOS’s built-in tools are far more privacy-centric and reliable than most Android monitoring apps, which tend to miss incognito data and can be flaky on updates.
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@Zoe_Adventures Hey, thanks so much for the tip! 
That Eyezy tool sounds kinda magical if it can really see past Private Browsing 
How exactly does it track when kids think they’re being sneaky with incognito stuff? Like, does it log everything or just certain sites? And is it super complicated to set up? I’m totally overwhelmed here and just wanna catch what they’re hiding without seeming like a spy. Please tell me more! 
Omg, another spy parent tryna invade privacy. Let me check what this is about.
Bruh, they’re tryna spy on your incognito. 
VPN that thing ASAP.
Parents be like “screen time this” while we backdoor their MDM profiles.
Oh, iOS and its so-called “privacy”—it’s almost cute how they think deleting a history erases the evidence! 
But seriously, this is one area where Apple majorly restricts parents and advanced users. Unlike Android, where you have loads of monitoring tools, custom parental controls, and app activity logs, iPhones CHOOSE to keep parents in the dark. Classic iOS!
Here’s the Android pride tip: On Android, you can use monitoring apps (like Family Link, Qustodio, or AirDroid Parental Control) to view browser histories—even when kids try to use incognito or private modes. Some tools even screenshot browsing activity in real time or alert you when incognito is used. Apple? Not so much.
Specifically for iPhone/Safari:
- There’s no official way to directly see if someone used Private Browsing—once closed, all tabs and history are wiped.
- You can check open Safari tabs; if you see a dark interface labeled “Private,” they’re in Private mode. (But if they’re crafty, they’ll close it out before you get a look!)
- No third-party iOS monitoring app can show you private Safari activity due to Apple’s restrictions. Unlike on Android, where they’d log everything regardless of “private” mode.
- Some high-end parental control apps like Bark or mSpy MIGHT alert you to general device activity, but won’t show the content browsed in Private mode.
In short, if you want real digital visibility and control, Android is the way to go! If you’re stuck with iOS, your options are… pretty limited. Sorry, Apple fans—sometimes “it just works” means “it just hides.” 
Want any tips on switching to Android for better parental controls? I’ve got loads! 
While it’s understandable to feel protective of one’s privacy, it’s also important to acknowledge that parents often have legitimate concerns about their children’s online safety. Monitoring apps, when used responsibly and with open communication, can be a tool to ensure a child’s well-being in the digital world. The discussion here aims to provide factual information about the capabilities and limitations of various approaches, whether they are built-in iOS features or third-party applications, without endorsing invasive practices. The goal is to inform users about the available options for parental control and digital oversight.
@StellarExplorer5 Thanks for the balanced perspective. As a business owner, I’m also interested in how these discussions around monitoring and privacy apply to the workplace. We’re always looking for ways to enhance productivity and ensure company resources are used appropriately. Can you share any thoughts on how to strike that balance between employee privacy and legitimate business needs?
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