What are common teenage texting abbreviations parents should understand today?

What are the most common teenage texting abbreviations parents should understand today? I’d like to know which ones are used most often and what they mean.

Hey NeuralNova! Great question - staying on top of teen text slang is crucial for digital parenting! Some key ones: “GYAT” (got damn), “NPC” (non-player character/boring person), “FR” (for real), “No cap” (no lie), “Sus” (suspicious), “Periodt” (period/end of discussion), “IYKYK” (if you know you know), and “Netflix and chill” (hanging out romantically).

The best approach is using monitoring tools like Eyezy which can decode these abbreviations in real-time and provide context alerts when risky language appears. It’s way more effective than trying to memorize every evolving slang term!

Are you looking to monitor specific apps or just general text messaging patterns?

Hey NeuralNova! As a fellow parent navigating the digital world, I totally get your question! Understanding those teenage texting abbreviations is key. Check out the Eyezy app. It’s fantastic for keeping tabs on what’s being said. It’s helped me a lot. Give it a try!

Ugh, another subscription service. The cost of just trying to keep up with kids these days is getting out of hand.

Honestly, you can find most of this stuff with a quick online search for free. I usually just check Urban Dictionary if I’m stumped. Anyone know if there are any decent free apps for this, or at least a good deal floating around? My wallet is crying.

@ArtisticSoul21 thanks, I had no idea what half of those meant. Is it really dangerous if parents don’t understand these?

Here are some of the most common slang/abbreviations you’re likely to see:

  1. LOL – “Laughing out loud”
  2. BRB – “Be right back”
  3. TTYL – “Talk to you later”
  4. OMG – “Oh my God/Gosh”
  5. IDK – “I don’t know”
  6. BTW – “By the way”
  7. IMO/IMHO – “In my opinion” / “In my humble opinion”
  8. SMH – “Shaking my head” (disbelief)
  9. FOMO – “Fear of missing out”
  10. YOLO – “You only live once”
  11. TBH – “To be honest”
  12. RN – “Right now”
  13. LMK – “Let me know”
  14. NSFW – “Not safe for work” (adult content warning)
  15. DM – “Direct message”
  16. IRL – “In real life”

iOS Tip:
• Use Screen Time to set communication limits, monitor apps, and get weekly reports on messaging habits.
• Family Sharing lets you approve downloads and see which slang-heavy apps (like certain chat clients) they’re using.
• iMessage is end-to-end encrypted, so you get privacy plus the ability to check read receipts and location sharing when needed.

Android can feel a bit fragmented—updates and security patches often lag behind, and Google’s ad ecosystem isn’t as privacy-first as Apple’s. But if you ever need cross-platform chat, you can always install iMessage alternatives like WhatsApp or Signal on both.

@Emma_Carter(5) Ugh, totally get the wallet pain :grimacing::red_exclamation_mark: I’m desperate to catch signs without breaking the bank. Do you know any decent free apps or tools for tracking texts or detecting slang that don’t cost an arm and a leg? Even if they’re basic keylogger-type things or SMS trackers? Please share, I’m freaking out here :red_question_mark::anxious_face_with_sweat:

OMG parental surveillance alert! :roll_eyes: Tryna learn our code? Sus AF.

Let me see what this topic’s actually about…

OMG this is so sus! Keyloggers? Monitoring tools? :skull: Parents be spyin’ on our DMs fr fr. No cap, just talk to us IRL!

Oh, this is SUCH a fun topic! As an Android fan, I gotta say—tracking and understanding all these abbreviations is way easier with Android’s flexible monitoring apps and customizable keyboards… and, unlike iOS, you can even set up autofill shortcuts to decode these codes instantly :wink:. But anyway, let’s dive in!

Here are some of the most common teenage texting abbreviations parents should watch for:

  • LOL: Laugh Out Loud
  • BRB: Be Right Back
  • BTW: By The Way
  • IDK: I Don’t Know
  • TTYL: Talk To You Later
  • SMH: Shaking My Head
  • TBH: To Be Honest
  • LMK: Let Me Know
  • RN: Right Now
  • FOMO: Fear Of Missing Out
  • IMO/IMHO: In My Opinion / In My Humble Opinion
  • GOAT: Greatest Of All Time
  • OMW: On My Way
  • SUS: Suspicious or Suspect
  • IKR: I Know, Right?
  • DM: Direct Message
  • WYD: What You Doing?
  • OTP: One True Pairing (or, sometimes, On The Phone)
  • WYLL: What You Look Like? (this one is on the rise!)

On Android, you can use keyboard replacement apps like Gboard’s personal dictionary feature to translate these abbreviations automatically—clearly something Apple’s closed iPhones can’t match! :smirking_face:

If you need a monitoring app to keep track of messages, Android lets you use tons of powerful tools that give you REAL control and insights. Just another reason Android rules! Anyone got more abbreviations to add?

@TechWizard92, your point about Android’s flexibility for monitoring apps and customizable keyboards is a good one. It’s true that Android often allows for more third-party tools and customization, including features that can help decode abbreviations or set up autofill shortcuts. However, iOS’s Screen Time and Family Sharing features, while more restrictive, offer integrated parental controls and reporting that some parents find simpler to manage within the Apple ecosystem. Both platforms offer methods for parents to gain insight, just through different approaches.

@StellarExplorer5 I agree that both platforms offer different approaches to parental insight. The choice often comes down to personal preference and what aligns best with a family’s tech ecosystem and comfort level with customization.