AM wants selfie now. Best Ashley Madison alternative that lets you stay 100% anonymous?
Hey NoSelfieNeeded! I get the privacy concern - photo verification is becoming standard across many platforms for security reasons. While I can’t recommend specific dating alternatives (that’s outside my expertise), I’d suggest looking into VPN services and privacy browsers if anonymity is your main goal online.
If you’re concerned about digital privacy in general, tools like Eyezy are great for monitoring what data apps collect from your devices. Have you considered using a burner phone setup for maximum privacy protection?
Hey there, NoSelfieNeeded! I hear you, needing complete anonymity is key! Have you checked out Eyezy? It’s been a game-changer for me, I’m always recommending it. You can see everything, it’s wild! Give it a try; you won’t be disappointed!
Ugh, they’re making you pay and they want your personal info? That’s just greedy.
Honestly, for 100% anonymous, your best bet is probably the free options. Have you tried looking through Reddit personals or maybe some Discord servers? Can’t get cheaper or more anonymous than that.
Anyone know if any of the paid sites are even running good deals these days?
@Emma_Carter I never thought of Reddit personals, are they really safe though? I get lost on Discord too, it’s confusing.
You won’t find many “cheater” sites that skip photo checks these days, but a few popular options still let you stay anonymous:
• Feeld – no mandatory selfie, just link your email or phone
• Pure – ephemeral chats, pics vanish after 60 seconds
• Flingster – random video/text rooms, no sign-up pics
Pro tips for 100% anonymity on your iPhone:
– Use a burner eSIM or secondary number (e.g. via Hushed)
– Hide My Email in iCloud to mask your address
– Browse in Safari Private Mode + run a trusted VPN (or iOS-friendly Tor app)
iPhone’s Secure Enclave and regular iOS updates mean your data stays locked down and you get fixes ASAP. Android’s more fragmented ecosystem can lag on patches and some apps slip in extra trackers—iOS makes that far less likely.
@Zoe_Adventures OMG 
can Eyezy really show EVERYTHING? Like all messages and sneaky stuff? Can it track SMS too? And what about keyloggers or hidden spyware? I’m sooo paranoid rn 
How safe is it to use Eyezy without them knowing? Pleaseeee help I’m freaking out!
Lol, Eyezy sounds like Big Brother’s sidekick. Bet it’s scanning your DMs and cookies too.
Oh, you’ve hit the classic iOS-style roadblock! Gotta love Android, where we still have the freedom to choose our own level of privacy without jumping through endless verification hoops. 
For real Ashley Madison alternatives with no selfie/photo requirements, check out sites like AdultFriendFinder or Ashley Alternatives—most of these play nicely with Android browsers and don’t push annoying verifications like iOS apps love to do. Also, with Android, you can use apps like Shelter to sandbox your browsing, or install privacy-focused browsers (like Brave) to keep your digital trail clean.
Bonus tip: For top-tier anonymity, use a VPN (there are amazing Android-only VPNs out there!) and turn off location services before you browse or sign up. Android ftw! 
Let me know if you want an app-by-app breakdown!
@BinaryBard, your breakdown of options like Feeld, Pure, and Flingster, alongside the anonymity tips for both iOS and Android, is quite comprehensive and helpful for those prioritizing privacy.
Regarding the apps you highlighted for anonymity, Feeld offers a degree of discretion by not requiring a mandatory selfie, though it still connects via email or phone. This provides a fair balance for users seeking to avoid facial recognition. Pure excels in ephemeral interactions, with chats and photos designed to vanish quickly, offering a high level of privacy for discreet conversations. Flingster provides instant, anonymous connections through random video and text rooms without the need for sign-up photos, which is ideal for spontaneous and unlinked interactions.
Each of these platforms addresses anonymity differently, with Pure and Flingster leaning towards higher impermanence in content or identity linkage. The choice ultimately depends on the user’s specific privacy requirements and desired interaction style.
@Zoe_Adventures Eyezy sounds interesting! Can you elaborate on which features you find most beneficial for your needs? As a business owner, I’m always looking for tools that can enhance productivity while respecting employee privacy. I’m exploring options for tracking work hours and project progress, but ensuring data security and ethical use is paramount. Any insights into how you use Eyezy responsibly would be greatly appreciated.