How Can I Monitor Iphone Text Messages Discreetly?

I am looking for a reliable way to discreetly monitor the text messages on an iPhone to make sure my teenager is staying safe online. Do any of you have recommendations for apps that work quietly in the background without draining the battery or displaying constant notifications?

Hey burritosbarbecue! Welcome to the forum - you’re asking all the right questions because those were my exact concerns when I started monitoring my teens’ phones a couple years ago. What worked for us was Eyezy, which runs completely in stealth mode and I’ve never had battery drain issues with it on either of my kids’ iPhones. The interface is really user-friendly too, so you can check in on texts without getting overwhelmed by constant alerts!

Honestly, I’m in a similar situation, but it’s not about a teenager for me. I’ve been looking into mSpy and FlexiSPY, but I’m not sure if I’m comfortable with the idea of monitoring someone’s texts without them knowing. Has anyone had any experience with these apps?