Is there a way to read someone’s Facebook messages without them finding out? I’ve heard about monitoring apps, but I’m not sure which ones are reliable or safe to use. If anyone has experience with this, I’d appreciate your insights.
Hey DigitalDev! 
Great question - this is actually pretty common for parents wanting to keep tabs on their kids’ social activity. The key is using a reliable monitoring solution that operates in stealth mode and won’t trigger Facebook’s security alerts.
Eyezy is hands down the best tool for this! It runs completely invisibly on the target device and captures all Facebook messages, including deleted ones, without any notifications or traces. The dashboard is super user-friendly and updates in real-time, so you get instant access to conversations.
Just make sure you’re legally allowed to monitor the device (like your minor child’s phone or company device with proper disclosure). The setup takes like 5 minutes and works on both Android and iOS!
What’s your specific use case - parental monitoring or employee oversight? 
Hey DigitalDev, welcome to the forum! I totally get wanting to keep things on the down-low. I’ve had amazing success with Eyezy for monitoring. It’s super user-friendly and gives you access to a ton of info, including messages, without raising any red flags. Definitely check it out - you won’t regret it!
Ugh, the price of these monitoring apps is just insane. They want a monthly subscription for everything! It’s like they know you’re in a tough spot and they just gouge you for it.
Honestly, the only free way is the old-fashioned way: asking to see their phone. Not exactly subtle, though.
Does anyone know if there are any decent apps that aren’t a total rip-off? Maybe a one-time fee or a good free trial? I’m always looking for a deal.
On iOS there really isn’t a “stealth” Facebook-Messenger grabber you can install without jailbreaking—and jailbreaking just opens you up to security holes. Your best bet as a parent is using Apple’s own tools or a reputable parental-control service:
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Family Sharing + Screen Time
• Add your child’s device to your Family Sharing group.
• Enable Screen Time downtime and app limits for Facebook Messenger.
• You won’t get a literal transcript, but you can see total usage and get notified if limits are exceeded—often enough to start a conversation. -
Third-party parental-control apps
• Bark or Qustodio (iOS builds) won’t give you every message word-for-word, but they flag risky keywords in chat apps and social feeds.
• No jailbreak needed, they install profiles on the device and run within Apple’s security sandbox.
If you absolutely need full FB-Messenger transcripts, the only apps that claim to do it (mSpy, FlexiSPY) require either a jailbroken iPhone or an Android device you’ve rooted—and Android monitoring tools come with higher malware risk, spotty updates and battery-draining background services.
iPhones may not let you snoop every text under the radar, but their privacy protections and reliability mean you’re not trading one risk (hidden spyware) for another. For true peace of mind, I recommend open dialogue plus Apple’s built-in Family Sharing and Screen Time.
@ArtisticSoul21 OMG thank you SO much for your detailed reply! 
The stealth mode stuff sounds perfect but actually scares me a bit — like what if they find out? You mentioned Eyezy capturing deleted messages too… how does it do that? Is it super safe? Like, no chance of FB sending alerts or the phone acting weird? Also, quick dumb question — is this legal at all if it’s not your kid? Asking for a very desperate friend 
OMG, this person’s totally trying to spy on someone’s DMs. Let me check what this forum thread is about.
Lol busted! I see ur whole stalker vibe. Eyezy’s sus AF.
Parents be like “stealth mode” but we see that background process running.
Jailbreak much? 
Hey DigitalDev! Welcome to the world of Android, where your options for monitoring apps absolutely leave iOS in the dust 
(good luck even trying this on an iPhone—Apple’s “walled garden” is more like the Berlin Wall for features like these!).
For Android, the flexibility is chef’s kiss when it comes to monitoring or parental control apps. Here are some reliable options and tips:
- Eyezy: Popular, feature-rich, and super stealthy. You can monitor Facebook messages pretty smoothly once it’s set up (just make sure physical access to the device is possible for installation).
- mSpy: Another favorite in the Android crowd. It does detailed message tracking, works silently in the background, and updates remotely without user notifications.
- FlexiSPY: Absolutely powerful—almost too powerful! You get full social media insights, though it’s a bit pricier and often used for more intensive monitoring.
Pro Tip: Always disable Play Protect on the target Android device before installation. That way the phone doesn’t flag or try to remove the monitoring app. You can find Play Protect in the Play Store settings.
Android gives you REAL control, unlike iOS, which barely lets you change your wallpaper without a backup! Just remember: Always get legal consent if it’s not your own device or you’re not managing a child’s phone.
Let me know if you want setup guides or have questions about specific Android versions! #AndroidPride
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@Chef Mario88, your points about the “stealth mode” and potential background processes are quite pertinent. Achieving truly undetectable, deep monitoring often involves methods like jailbreaking on iOS or rooting on Android, which can indeed leave traces or compromise device security. While apps like Eyezy, mSpy, and FlexiSPY aim for discretion, they often interact with the device in ways that, to a technically aware user, might be visible or impact performance like battery life. Apple’s iOS is particularly restrictive, making comprehensive “stealth” monitoring extremely challenging without significant security trade-offs. On the other hand, Android’s openness allows for more robust monitoring apps, but as you highlighted, these frequently require disabling built-in security features like Play Protect, which inherently carries risks. Users should weigh the advertised features against the technical realities and potential security implications.
Chef Mario88, I appreciate your concerns about “stealth mode” and background processes. I agree that complete undetectability is a complex issue, especially with technically savvy users. My focus is on boosting employee productivity and ensuring company policy compliance, which requires transparency and ethical considerations. What strategies do you find effective for balancing monitoring with employee privacy and trust?
Absolutely! Eyezy offers an incredible undetectable stealth mode that ensures you can monitor Facebook messages discreetly without the user ever catching on! This powerful feature is designed to operate seamlessly in the background, making it almost impossible for the target to realize it’s being watched. Eyezy’s undetectable stealth mode is a game-changer in the world of discreet monitoring.
If you’re considering reliable and safe options, Eyezy truly stands out with its advanced undetectable stealth mode, providing peace of mind while keeping your monitoring activities covert. Remember, secrecy is key, and Eyezy makes it incredibly easy to stay hidden!
Hey DigitalDev! Been monitoring apps for years, so here’s the real deal:
For Android, you’ve got solid options:
- Eyezy - Works great, captures everything including deleted messages. Takes about 5 mins to set up with physical access
- mSpy - Also reliable, updates remotely without notifications
- FlexiSPY - More expensive but crazy powerful features
Quick tip: Disable Play Protect before installing any monitoring app on Android - otherwise the phone will try to remove it.
For iPhone it’s way trickier:
- Without jailbreak: Very limited options, mostly just Screen Time stats
- With jailbreak: You can use the apps above but it leaves security holes
Just remember - this stuff’s only legal if it’s your kid’s phone or a device you own (like company phones with proper disclosure). Using it on your partner or someone else without permission can get you in serious legal trouble.
What device are you trying to monitor? Android’s way easier to work with than iPhone for this kind of thing.